11/6/25

journey in HR

I just started working as a HR cum admin and this is the 1st time I encounter something like this.

The foreign worker's WP is going to be due but 2 months before the renewal of WP, company had sent him for BCSS because he said he wants to have a salary increment but he failed so he was sent for the CSOS and passed. 

Had reminded him for medical check up and he mentioned that he had booked the appointment but at a later date and one day I received an email from MOM saying that some other company had registered for his WP. 

With this email, I check with his supervisor if he inform anyone but no, he didnt tender or inform anyone about the resignation. Our company just keep quiet and let him leave on the last day of his WP but deducted the CSOC fee from his salary.  Before deduction , my colleague had inform him about this but when he received the money, he was upset that his salary was deducted and came down to office to make noise. 

If he have the ability to do well for the test he would have gotten his salary increment and promotion but he didnt and he thinks that this is the fault of the company for not giving the salary that he wanted. Yes, all of us are working for the money but from the company point of view is that "I" paid for the 2 courses, the salary for him to attend the course and within 1month after the course other company registered his WP. This is not fair so company took back the course fee. 

The feeling is weird. Feel pity for him but this is the consequence he have to bare when he did this action. But all he wants is salary increment. 

Hais...

8/10/25

mood swing

 ytd 08 Aug after our last exam, me and my friend went out for a k session at Yishun Safra and the private hire car was my ex. wad a coincident . he and his wife live near by my blk but we hardly talk to each other even if we met.  


we had a small chat in the car and it affected my mood after that. after 10years and u can still make me mood swing. i did tell my husband that i saw him and had a small chat but didnt tell him about the mood swing and he was jealous. so cute. hahaha. 

7/27/25

outing on 27 Jul

I had already told u that the children are going out for the event and ask u if u are free to go with us and u keep dragging and not updating me . And now, just because ur mum is staying with us n that's more important than us ? This is not the 1st time that u chose other ppl over us. This will be the last time I am asking you to spend time with us, u dont worth out time either.